In America, we are transitioning from one kind of energy to another. This is not a political statement, it’s simply about the energy driving our country’s leadership. We are moving from Trump’s fear-based energy of divisiveness and exclusion to Biden’s more amare energy of unification and inclusion.
It’s like a business shifting from the fighting and separating energy of the “business as war” paradigm to the uplifting and connecting energy of the “business as love” paradigm. Some will embrace the change, some will resist it. In the spirit of compassion, we need to acknowledge that a paradigm shift changes the status quo, and that is hard for a lot of people. The key is finding and growing what unites us.
- What comes to mind when you hear “unity?”
- What do you need to let go of during this transition of energy?
- How can you show compassion to those resisting the change?
Four Amare Ways to Promote Unity
- Resist gloating. It’s tempting for the winning team to gloat – especially after such a rancorous contest like this election. Watch out for that urge and instead show compassion. Remember what it feels like to be on the other side.
- Celebrate differences. Remind your people that your organization celebrates diversity. Show it by having safe and honest conversations with people with opposing viewpoints and see what common ground you have in your goals.
- Model vulnerability. Now is the time to show that it’s okay to bring your whole self to work. That means exposing and owning your flaws and encouraging others to do the same.
- Keep healthy boundaries. Unifying people within an organization does not mean that anything goes. Be clear and respect boundaries around what is and is not appropriate and acceptable behavior in your company.
Welcoming Stories of Amare Leaders for Next Book!
Do you know of organizations and leaders on this path? I’m seeking more inspiring stories of leaders successfully putting love to work to showcase in the next book in the Amare Way Series, entitled Riding the Amare Wave: Inspired Stories of Leading with Love. Please send me a note to share your ideas (even if you’re not certain they’re a good fit or don’t have a personal connection with the organization).
Today’s Amare Wave Wednesday Quote
“I pledge to be a President who seeks not to divide, but to unify.
Who doesn’t see Red and Blue states, but a United States.”
—Joe Biden, President-Elect
Thanks everyone for tuning in to Amare Wave Wednesday! Do YOUR one amare thing today to improve your business and grow the wave!
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With Amare,
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Timely and helpful message. The change does need to start with me!
True for all of us Jerry. Thanks for commenting. Amare!